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Random Things I Can't Tell Regular People

Saturday, May 28

Why do I do this?

A brief note on why I bother blogging. Although, I've admitted in the past that I am a bit of an exhibistionist, that's not my main motivation. I like to tell my stories to understand them better in my brain. I do not write a blog to be the fodder for someone else's fantasy. If it so happens that people enjoy reading about the things I can't talk to regular people about, so be it, but it's not my prime objective. I write because I need to think things out in my head, and I do that best in writing. I also write for my husband, so he can see what I'm thinking. I'm not always very verbal, especially about things I find uncomfortable, embarassing, unusual, difficult... This blog lets me express myself in the way I feel most comfortable, instead of him trying to make me talk (like pulling teeth!). That's why I write.
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And as a side benefit, by writing in your blog about things on your mind, you receive opinions, suggestions, and encouragement from others who enjoy reading your blog such as myself.

By Anonymous Rob, at 7:17 a.m.  

"I like to tell my stories to understand them better in my brain. "

That's exactly what my number one reason is too. Whatever else goes on is neither my motivation or my intention.

Writing about it really helps me figure it out and know what I want to make sure my husband knows and understands.

Hope you're having a good weekend.

By Blogger Wendy the Cavewyfe, at 2:01 p.m.  

Those are excellent reasons for blogging. And having a blog is a great way to communicate with your spouse. For Sue and me it's benefitted our sex life and our relationship generally.

By Anonymous ed, at 8:06 p.m.  

My blogging offers a mental therapy for me. I write, read it and can sometimes understand *me* a little more.

By Anonymous Anonymous, at 8:50 a.m.  

Sorry - what's "burn fun"?

By Blogger Malcolm, at 12:05 a.m.  

Sorry again - my eyesight translated "bum" into "burn" with that damn arial font.

By Blogger Malcolm, at 12:08 a.m.  

Malcolm, that would only be if the lube isn't working....;)

By Blogger Wendy the Cavewyfe, at 7:14 a.m.  

ouch!

By Blogger claire, at 9:15 p.m.  

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